We're both very pleased to introduce you to our newest (and possible most powerful) offering to help you create your own ever better life:
Ever Better Couples Coaching.
Over the past several years, one of the most common bits of positive feedback we have received from Awareness School participants is that what they have learned and experienced with this material has allowed them to:
Resolve seemingly insoluble relationship problems…
Rekindle the fun and intimacy that caused them to be attracted to their partner in the first place…
And, in more than one instance, we have hard that the Ever Better Life principles have literally “saved my marriage."
With that in mind, we decided to take the best of Awareness school…
Combine it with material that we have never presented in a systematic way before…
And package it all into a powerful monthly group coaching program that is designed to synergistically:
- Use your existing relationship problems to reveal your and your partner’s “stuff”…
- Use the awareness-based clearing of this “stuff” to clean up relationship messes and build something in its place that will make your relationship one of the best and most rewarding aspects of your life instead of one of the biggest sources of stress, anxiety, hurt feelings, resentment, anger, insecurity, etc.
People often think that they need a new partner when, often, what they actually need is a new relationship.
Have you ever known (or been) someone who, despite changing partners on a regular basis, kept finding themselves in more or less exactly the same relationship?
That’s because, as we move from moment to moment, from fight to fight, and even from partner to partner, we carry all of us with us when we go.
That means both the things we’re conscious of…
And a whole lot of what we aren’t.
Ever Better Couples Coaching is about learning to see this unconscious “stuff” and recognize it for what it is…
So that you can start running your relationship and your life rather than allowing your (and their) unconscious patterns to run these things into the ground.
What’s most unique about this approach is that we really get into the deep stuff that makes consistent happiness and harmony in a relationship impossible…
Like, for instance, the fact that, when a lack of “compatibility” is the problem, the incompatibility often lies between each individual and consistent states of peace and happiness rather than between the individuals themselves.
What if it’s not your partner that you can’t tolerate…
What if what you really can’t stand, at least at an unconscious level, are all of the feelings and experiences that you consciously desire and work so hard to create?
There is nothing more miserable or demoralizing than living with a mind that desires things that that same mind prevents you from creating…
Except maybe living with this kind of a mind and with another person who has this kind of a mind, too.
So, if you know that you have “compatibility issues” when it comes to consistently creating what you want in your relationship…
And if you’re really ready to do something major about it…
Ever Better Couples Coaching is for you.
This program consists of:
Two 1:1 coaching calls per month…
Two live group sessions…
Ongoing Telegram support
Where you can ask questions, share your struggles and successes, and get real-time feedback that will assist you in developing the awareness you need to grow out of the unconscious patterns that keep you locked in relationship hell.
Before enrolling, please know:
This is an intense and an intensive program.
These meetings aren’t fluff or theory or lectures…
They consist of you and, ideally, your partner witnessing in real time exactly how you go about creating disharmony in your day to day life.
If you aren’t comfortable with other people seeing you see yourself engage in what is very likely almost always unconscious, automatic, and often unresourceful mechanical relationship-sabotaging behavior…
Or if you aren’t willing and able to deal with this discomfort…
This program is not for you.
If you enroll in this program, you are going to see things about yourself that your mechanical mind, your “ego,” and your self-image absolutely do not want you to see…
And these aspects of yourself will likely fight very hard to persuade you to abandon this project just when it is starting to become productive.
If you’re a quitter, a whiner, or one who prefers preserving your unhappy delusions over creating the changes you claim to want…
This program is not for you.
If you have a secret affection for the things that you complain about…
And if you aren’t prepared to have this pointed out to you and to see it for yourself…
This program is not for you.
If you want us to fix your relationship for you…
And you aren’t prepared to have this desire pointed out and to drop it…
This program is not for you.
If you want your partner to fix the relationship for you by changing in the ways that you think they need to…
And if you aren’t willing to acknowledge this misguided tendency and drop it…
This program is not for you.
Don’t get us wrong…
It’s not that we don’t want you to join us in Ever Better Couples Coaching, it’s just that we want to be very clear regarding what this program is about, what it consists of, what some of the experiences your encounter as you participate in it might be.
In our years of doing this work, we have found that many people think that they want to do this when, really, the actually just like the idea of wanting to do it.
Most of the people who are ready for what this program has to offer have been one of these people before in the past…
And they will recognize themselves in this description and know right away that, although these warnings are directed to a previous version of themselves, the person that they are now is more than ready and more than willing to do whatever it takes to free themselves from the unconscious stuff that is compelling them to create and perpetuate miserable disharmony with the person with whom they have chosen to spend their life.
If you have made it this far, you’re probably ready for the big secret:
The stuff that is alienating you from your partner is just an outgrowth of the stuff that is (and that has been) alienating you from yourself.
So, while this program is about repairing your relationship…
At a deeper level, it’s about healing yourself so that you will be a person for whom a healthy relationship becomes a real possibility.
If this program is for you…
You’ll be able to tell by now.
Thank you for taking the time to read and for choosing to include us in your learning and your life.
We hope to see you soon!
Love,
Steve and Melissa
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